Note: I appologize my readers if they find this post offensive. But some matters are ought tobe adressed in a strong language.

Ammar,

I feel like you are TOO much frustrated by KESC, Well you are not alone
“Forgiveness is better than revenge”, This is what I have been reading from many books and in the start my thinking was like “What…! Why should I leave this person, he/she should be punished for the mistake he committed” but after sometime I realized what book said was true, because taking revenge is not the end, its start… it will keep on giving you tension and will make your life full of tensions.

Forgiving others will make your life easier. Its my experience, you can give it a try

hahah offensive. come on dude, we are all mature adults here

@ Om

Not letting anyone’s mistake affect ur life is the only way that will make your life easier.

@ taimoor

i knw that bro but even some mature adults might find it offensive. this was just a note of consideration.

its not that offensive…. and trust me if u start caring too much about others… u will end up leading a plastic life

Forgive and forget, they say ‘coz thats healthy for you! …thats make me one hell of an unhealthy individaul!

I totally undestand your point of view ‘coz I have this mean habbit of not forgiving and not forgetting, I know it’s wrong but why be hypocrite and smile and say ‘oh no problem, i’m pretty ok with it’ when i’m not. I know I’m not a perfect person and I too hurt others as others hurt me,but I rather shove the burden of responsibility on other people or circumstances. Now a days I am trying to analyse where did i go wrong and where is my fault. Most of the times i find out that it’s actually me who was expecting too much from others or viewing things from my own point of view without knowing other side of story.

I have too much to say, perhaps tommorow i’ll write my own blog on this

Btw, pegasus is right, ‘coz its ok to to consider other people feelings but its more ok to let your steam out

Cheers

@ lubz

my point was; tht you shd never make any mistake eva or ppl will make you pay for it adn dont be geneorus as they wont be when it comes to ya.

Ahh..Ok..got your point

@ Ammar:

True.

@ Pegasus:

You are right. I can witness this.

@ Om

witness wat ??

@ Ammar:

I tried to say that “I have personally observed what pegasus said”

ammar, exactly bro!

People expect you to be all nice, understanding and forgiving when they screw up .. where-as they dont apply the same to themselves.

I totally agree..even if things are going pretty okay, someone else steps up and screw things up for you…!! And when you mention it to them they are always like: “Dudee!! I was jus trying to help.!!!”….

aint it ironic how people try to help you, when you seriously dont want their help at all…. and mostly they end up screwing things up for ya!!! :d On the other hand, when you do need their help…they’re likely to turn around and show their ass………………..

@Simz:

Asim, thanday ho jao …. I remember your blog SAYING NO … Same issue
Kisi ne chheda hai kya tumhain? batao yaar, we will see him/ her