I wonder whether there is any one rule that holds true when it comes to relationships. One set of laws following which we can claim that yes I am a perfect partner of my spouse. Every relationship has its own uniqueness, so as every breakup. Everyone claims that I have been a lot. And if we come to think of it; yes everyone who dared to love, been through both heaven and hell.
But the question remains the same; is there any particular criteria following which you can win your love or otherwise. And if we cleared phase one will we be able to move on to the 2nd floor. I guess not
That’s why some wise guy came up with this solution;
‘Everything is fair in love and war’
That’s the most dumb ass advice I ever came across to
I believe women are demanding and men are impractical when it comes to love/relationships. We men when in love create such a big hype and when we reach the pinnacle of our relationship; we loose it all. Like; the amount of interest, our sense of understanding and realization. But women don’t make things easy for anyone. They have a tendency of exerting pressure on the pimple and bursting the venom out. This rule might hold true for other social issues but certainly not for this one.
I dont know if this song goes with the post but JJ looks funny in the majnoo get up
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Nice observation, well a healthy relationship wants both the seeders to seed and water it properly. A woman has the germ of always wanting the attention either the guy wants to give it to her or not. A guy being possessive or protective sometimes extra, tries to hide her from all the stuff HE finds not good, but he should give some space rather i must say both of them should give equal space to eachother and yet it doesnt mean let them run away with it. woh kehty hain “Dheel bhe do par Cheel ke nigah bhe rakho”. lols ![]()
It needs time and patience to know and understand a person, u need to either mould urself or to mould the other, any of that will sometimes hurt but results might be good.
And yeah the song is great and man i dunno how JJ has still maintained that Charm that he had before. MashAllah !
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well a good realtionship is not a rocket science for me if both partners understand thr roles and act accordingly one can maintain a healthy rshp and secondly if the male partner reassure thr love, commitment , and support idnt think anythng can go wrong men shd kno who to please thr female partner without and before demanding dats wat i think…
Hey Ammar ur blog is having a really weird kinda popup thingy it replaces ur page with some add or something…n thts irritating :S
Thanks beeca and Nikki for your valuable comments
@ nikki
i dont like the new JJ look
maybe because i dislike the mullahs. I will look into the problem your facing while accessing ronin.
@beeca
i agree with you.
heyy found ur blog:)
as far as topic is concerned relationships dont happen its u who let thm happen n da most imp ingredient is trust tht will flourish the relationship n da quote tht saya everything is….its our state of mind coz we want everything to be fall in our favour da name of topic is intrestin:p
is it second floor or second step?:)
hi there nice blog just read the first post i guess over here..
the things that you are tying to say or observed must have some clear thought in your head,,but dnt know why i felt as if you missed them out
patha nai but thats what i think
@ Sakina
welcome to ronin. The title is the second floor. When i ever i try to sound intelligent Imad taunt me by murmuring; The second floor.
@ Naveed
Welcome to ronin man!
I have tried to make this discussion quite general, so yeah it might has this impression but anyways I didnt missed out on any thing i wanted to discuss.
And I am sure many people who can realte at any level understood the post.
Its actually bery thought provoking..this time, i’m agreeing with you ![]()
why thankyou ![]()
i have been reading it all now, and well i think love is a really tricky thing and i think its much about learn to be content with what you have, but the tricky part is there, that if you learn to be to content with what you have it will end in that your are so unsatisfied that you truly gonna make stupid things in the relationship your in.. I think love is gorgeus but its all about respect and and i yes i think that every realtionships and breakups are unique but i also think that you can say in general “that i am a very good partner” bequase of this : we can all agreed that it is good to listen, some realtionships may not think that is good, but we can still agree to if you listen good and so on that is a good quality of a partner so that is good and if your partner doesnt think that, that doesent make him or her right just that she thinks very different. for example many people doesent think that it is wrong to lie in general, but we can all agree that it is better to not lie. so well then we can say if you listen in a realtionships for example that make you closer to a very good paratner even if your partner in that relationship doesent think so. so in the end you can stand in the mirror and say “in general and in the law what the world think is good as we have all agreed on “like lying is not good” i am a good partner. and well closer to the truth you cannot come, but this still doesent have to make your relationship good, cause sometimes partners doesent even want partners that is good
thats why its tricky in my oppinion and well you more you think of solving the problem the more i think its getting unsolved, i have tried for all my life now and well let me tell you it doesent get easier
haha..
anyway.. i have a question to.. do you know who have made that picture with the bird, the tree and the man
cheers/daniel
welcome to my blog daniel and thank you for your comments!
thanks do yuo know how have made the picture?
and one more thing.. my music band is now on a swedish competition called tele2studio and if we win, we win a recordlabel, and we are now 5 of 1300 thats crazy but know we need more votes than ever so if you wanna vote it would be crazy good and get as many friends to vote to
http://tele2.plusfoursix.com/ArtistPage.aspx?menue=6&id=1511
there is the link
Rösta! means vote and LYssna! means listen